Month: October 2017

Choosing Legal Guardians for Kids When Mom and Dad are Divorced | Houston Wills Lawyer

As a Houston wills lawyer, I can not state emphatically enough how important it is for all parents to create a comprehensive plan that will protect their children should the unthinkable occur.

But what happens if you are divorced and can not come to an agreement with your ex-spouse as to who should raise your kids if something happens to you? Should you go ahead and document your own guardianship wishes anyway? And just whose wishes would hold up in court?

In most cases, if your child’s biological parent is still living at the time of your death and you share custody, your children will be raised by the surviving parent, unless there is some clear reason why that should not happen.

There is nothing you can do about this unless you can prove that the child’s biological parent is unfit to raise your child and make a compelling case as to why your guardianship nominations should be honored under the circumstances.

Examples of this might include a severe drug addiction, criminal past or a history of abuse.

However, if this is unlikely, the next best thing to do is name guardians anyway so that your wishes for the care of your children will be known and taken into consideration should your ex-spouse also pass away before your kids reach the age of 18.

This is especially important in the event your ex-spouse did not legally document his or her guardianship wishes upon passing, as your wishes would then be given priority over, say, an unwilling step-parent (just think back to the Cinderella story for a chilling example of this).

Finally, if you are a single parent and have concerns not only about guardianship but also concerning your ex-spouse handling any assets you would leave to your kids if you passed away first, I encourage you to meet with a Houston wills lawyer right away so you can protect such funds in a trust. If you need help getting started with this, please feel free to give us a call at Hegwood Law Group and request a consultation: (218) 218-0880.

 

How to Remove Someone from Your Will in Texas

If you are reading this blog, chances are that you thinking about removing someone from your estate. It is a tough choice. But, if you are ready to move forward, here is what you should know about disinheriting an heir or a loved one.

Disinheriting Your Child

If your will is drafted properly, it is generally possible to disinherit a child. However, you should be aware that if you choose to do this, that child could challenge or contest the will. Again, if you have a solid will in place, your estate will most likely prevail. However, fighting such a lawsuit can be costly for the estate which means there will be less money available for your intended heirs.

Disinheriting Your Spouse

Most of the time, it is impossible to disinherit a spouse. There are certain contracts that allow for a disinheritance such as a prenuptial or postnuptial agreement. These legal documents are valid since the spouse agreed to the arrangement in advance when they signed the document. Without a prenuptial or postnuptial agreement in place, the state’s elective share statute law typically protects the surviving spouse from being either intentionally or unintentionally disinherited.

Here in Texas, the law allows you to completely cut your spouse out of your will, but only in regard to those assets that you control. Because Texas is a community property state, your spouse will still be entitled to a share of the combined marital property and to live in the marital home – even if you try to completely disinherit him or her.

Disinheriting a child or a spouse is very tricky and must be done correctly to ensure that you get the result you are seeking. It is critical to discuss your situation in advance with a qualified estate planning attorney before making any changes to your current estate plan. If you would like to learn more about this, call our office at (281) 218-0880 and make an appointment to discuss the best options for your situation.